You’re Part of the Move Too
When a parent, partner, or loved one moves into a retirement residence, it’s a significant life change for them, but it’s a change for you, too.
At Levante Living, we often hear from family members who are so focused on supporting their loved one that they forget to take a moment to prepare themselves for what’s ahead. If you’re helping someone move into senior living, here are a few ways to prepare yourself for the transition, emotionally, practically, and with care.
1. Understand what support will look like moving forward
Moving to a retirement residence often means shifting your role. You may be used to helping with meals, errands, appointments, or even hands-on care. In many cases, that day-to-day responsibility will shift to the on-site team.
At Levante Living, we are here to provide personalized care. Our wellness, culinary, and recreation teams work together to ensure that your loved one receives support tailored to their individual needs and preferences. When you know how we care for them, you can focus more on your relationship and less on logistics.
2. Be honest about what this move means for you
You might feel relief. You might feel guilt. You might feel uncertain about your place in your loved one’s life from now on. All of that is normal.
This is a transition for you, too. It’s okay to acknowledge your feelings. Talk to someone you trust, journal your thoughts, or speak with a team member. You’re not alone in this, and just like we support our residents, we’re here for their families as well.
3. Stay involved, but shift your focus
Your involvement still matters; it just may look different. Instead of coordinating daily needs, think about:
- Attending programs or meals with your loved one
- Taking them on outings or visits
- Joining community events at the residence
- Staying connected by phone or video chat
- Volunteering or supporting resident events
These moments are part of what connects us as a community. They provide your loved one with comfort and give you the space to enjoy being together, without the pressure of doing it all yourself.
4. Celebrate the milestones along the way
Settling into senior living comes with small victories: the first time your loved one makes a new friend, joins an activity, or says, “I’m really starting to like it here.” These are moments to celebrate.
At Levante Living, we prioritize recognizing and celebrating the everyday joys of life. From themed events to personal milestones, we create space for residents and families to feel proud of the journey they’re on.
5. Remember, this is a new chapter for both of you
This isn’t about stepping back. It’s about stepping into a new kind of role, one built on connection, not caretaking. Your presence still matters. Your support still matters. But now, you have a team around you to help make it all feel a little lighter.
We don’t just welcome your loved one; we welcome you to the Levante Living family.
Moving into senior living is a change, but it can be a positive one for everyone involved. When you prepare yourself, not just your loved one, you create space for both of you to thrive.
At Levante Living, our pillars are simple but strong: we care deeply, we connect meaningfully, and we celebrate life. We’re here to walk with you through this chapter and every one that follows.